Yesterday was a rough day for a lot of my kiddos. I am convinced it was the energy, the alignment of the planets (retrograde mercury, mars and pluto), and maybe the fact that it was a rainy cloudy monday.
Regardless, it was one of my toughest days of practice to date. Obviously this was no one's fault. Especially not my clients! In fact more than anything it was me, feeling a little 'off' myself, worrying about whether I could have at least ONE good session to make up for the seemingly uncharacteristic fits and breakdowns that seemed to be in order, but how unfair is that? I really really (possibly desperately!) need to not take the vibe of one session to another, and even more so if it is negative.
Ok, so I'm writing this because I need to look at yesterday as a learning experience. Yes, clients will have tough days, and I will have my 'off' days too. The key is to keep going, to learn from the rocky spots (and I already have assessed what went wrong in some of the cases yesterday)
I work with a brother and sister, both of whom I see individually, with autism, and both of them had issues with rigidity, or ocd, perseverations, you can call it what you'd like, yesterday. They were both fixated on electronic keyboards and seemed to be developing an obsession with operating the keyboard in specific ways. Both of them got upset when these keyboard operating routines were disturbed, and both of them seemed to have trouble pulling themselves out of these obsessions. The anxiety that they felt at not being able to perform their obsessive rituals (I use these terms because one of the aides mentioned that a clients behavior with the keyboard was becoming 'an o.c.d. thing') really set the tone of each of their sessions, and this was where I made my biggest mistake. I needed to bring them out of this anxiety in an effective therapeutic way, redirect the attention of the session AWAY from the objects of obsession, with something novel, engaging, and calming.

ok, so what do I do if this happens again? It most likely will. Tomorrow I will be seeing one of those same clients again and would like to more effectively engage her. She responds wonderfully to pre-recorded music that is familiar to her, as well as physical interaction, dancing/moving/shaking/playing to music.
I guess one of my options could be to create a movement song for her, with interesting sounds, engaging rhythm/melody etc. The problem with that is, she often does not respond too positively to new and unfamiliar songs, but we have to start somewhere right? So I guess the risk lies in getting her to listen and engage, and then later come to 'like' and 'enjoy'. The interaction has to come first, and in order for her to be able to process something new, her system has to be anxiety free (at least mostly!). So, regulation is first, then the introduction of a new and personalized activity...
I'm also debating how to use the keyboard in a positive way, should I totally eliminate/discourage it? Should I continue to allow her to act out the compulsions and continue to interrupt them so that through the exposure she can learn? How do you tackle compulsions in autistic individuals?
Sometimes when I think about these 'off' days that my clients have, I imagine that the music is simply too much for them. Their anxiety levels are higher than they usually are, they're systems are not processing in a way that is functional for them, and in order for them to process music, they really need to have their auditory processing system in decent working order, I can't expect it to be like this every day!
Well, holy introduction batman!
Where I was originally going with this was wanting to illustrate the use of sounds, and non-conventional 'music' to help kiddos through these difficult sensory dis-regulation periods. I am going to try to develop a process by which anxiety ridden clients can reintroduce 'music' to their systems, bit by bit, throughout the course of a session. The session needs to have structure and predictability, particularly for these clients, and because of how I've developed sessions with my clients up to this point, there is not so much of that.
okay so, a few things I'm going to try:
posters or other visual aides to show a session's SCHEDULE/structure
Digitally developing songs/sounds personalized for clients based on knowledge of sounds they appear to enjoy and seek out
Allow for client contribution, clear instruction and room for lots of success and validation
I think I'm going to make a sub-section within my blog to document my sessions with these two fabulous siblings and their unique needs. We'll call it, 'the siblings in music' - hence today's title.
to follow this section of my blog, search for entries beginning with 'the siblings in music'